The Conversation

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You know, with age the relationship with parents either become strong or weak. It actually depends on how your parents treat you and how you see them. At teen age, it's very common to feel that parents don't love us or they don't anything good for us. 

I don't know but I just call my parents only once. Even two days back, my dad called me at 4am, to say, "why your number was off yesterday, we tried alot but your number was unreachable". And I was like, "dad, I'm sleeping. I've to wake up in one hour. Please let me sleep, I'll call you at evening." 

Even yesterday I had a conversation with mom at evening. But dad was driving that time, so I didn't called him. So today, I just generally called mom. And luckily my dad picked the call. 

And I was like, "dad, you are at home? But I had my classes". And he was like, "I had a very bad holiday today, your brother and Mamma didn't let me sleep. In every one hour they are like, "let's go for driving".". And dad was like, "why you didn't took your brother there. He is useless. Better you were here. You used to help me. He is just lazy panda. Even I need to do his work. And your mom treats him like king. Totally useless he is." And I was just laughing. 

You know, I can waste my complete money on eating foods and I won't complaint. And here I was complaining dad that how my electricity bill is going to come above 200+ rupees. And I was explaining how hot the weather is here. And I just turn on my fan these days all the time. 

And my dad line was, "why aren't you using AC? I know it's damn hot these days." And I was actually shocked. Like I was complaining him and he is saying me not to worry about money, just live comfortably.

I can't use my AC though. I had complained the warden to check it. So most probably, by tomorrow or by Tuesday I can use it 😂.  

Parents only think about us only. For them, our comfort is utter important. 

And then he started talking about Holi. Holi is one of the most important festival for us. It marks the beginning of new year for us. And here I'll be in hostel. Even last year, I didn't celebrated. I was so sad that I didn't went anywhere. Thanks to cutie. ;) 

Later on, I was explaining dad about the lockdown and precautions we have to take here. We can't celebrate Holi. Though we are just 5 people, so we can celebrate them in terrace, where our mess is. But I'm damn afraid of Corona actually. 

Trust me, here when we go through escalator, everyone touches it. I don't even touch it. And I regularly sanitise my hand in class. And even don't remove my masks there. Trust me, earlier it was uncomfortable wearing masks for 5 - 6 hours regularly. But now, I don't feel it. It's comfortable even. 

So while talking on call. Then dad gave the call to mom. I was telling her about the free test series, I'm taking these days. Actually I was telling mamma earlier that I'll take it's series. But since I've Allen series already (and I can give them more than once). And so many majors and minors papers of previous years of Allen (I'll practise them from 2 to 5 at room, and will solve it like exam paper, with OMR sheet).

And then mamma talked about going on a trip once my exams are over. And I was like, "mamma we'll go to South India" and mamma is like, 'we'll go to Ajmer first and then complete Rajasthan. South India we'll go the next time".

Then they were going out for long drive. My brother is learning car driving. He has learnt alot. Even he had driven the car while going to Banaras on Highway. Even he had learnt bike too. 

Once my exams are over, I'll too learn the car driving. Obviously, I'm interested in it. Even my dad told me today that he had cleaned and repaired it. And he was saying me that he'll send my cycle here. He has kept it savely since last two years. 

This conversation made my day today !!

💫❤️
When life gives you positive vibes everytime. 😂

My dida's status today. It made my dad even.🤭❤️ (Everything looks beautiful on you my baby)🤭. 

I'm adding one of the comment here. I was listening to mast magan few days back and found that comment. 


My WhatsApp. Actually I didn't saw the messages since morning. I came online few minutes back.😂 And there is nothing to reply even.😂


Thank you!! 

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