What DEATH Taught Us ?

Since childhood , we all are interested in knowing what happens after death . Whether their is really heaven or hell ? These are the most intriguing questions we all have . But what about the lessons we learn in the process?

 We all discuss about : 

1. What life teaches us? 

2. How life teaches us ? 

3. About how karma works in life ? 

        

But what about death ? Why don't we discuss what death taught us? Why don't we talk about the lessons we learnt after some one left us ? 

I remember watching the video of Gaur Gopal Das jii where he mentioned about his father's death and how much he regretted about not saying sorry to him for the mistakes he did everytime. This is what death taught us . The importance of person when they are gone. The importance of relationship infront of being right.  The importance of love Infront of ego. 

Once lost then they can't come back .

This is the most depressing one - liner. Once we lost someone , then , we aren't going to get them back.  This hurts every time when we miss someone .

We all plan about several things . But no one talks about the end. How everything will be kept like that but the person will be gone ? How things will change all of the sudden ? How we are going to miss that person thorough out our life ? 

Death teaches us to be strong. It teaches us that sometimes even the strongest can cry . It teaches us how our life will change drastically. It teaches about the pain they left us with. Death teaches us alot. 

I remember listening to my Nani's (maternal grandmother) death news. It was a phone call from my father saying she is no more. And what I replied was , you are joking right?

Yes I can't believe my Nani was no more with me. It was the first time when I was away from her and at that very moment she left me. It's going to be an year now but still I can't believe she is no more. Her death taught me , even the closest leave you. 

No matter what happens death is a sad truth of our life. We all need to accept the fact that our close one are going to leave us. 

Sometimes , when I go to her house , I believe she is sitting in the bed and talking to me about my favourite stories or listening to my endless talk. 

Death teaches us no matter how much you pray or miss them but they are not going to comeback. One gone then forever gone. 

Few hours ago , a news flashed on my mobile.  It said , " Sushant Singh Rajput is no more. Found hanging in his apartment. Police says it might be a sucide case ". I remember watching his movie , Kai Po Che where he died at the end and that seen literally made my eyes wet. But when I watched today news , I was shivering . The news shocked that the very actor who talked about , suicide is not the end , did the same . We don't know his story . He fought till the end. When he couldn't see any other option then he did this. Not sure about the news as the case is still on investigation. But yet if this is the reason then it's a turmoil. 

His death taught us that depression is serious. When we are lonely , then , nothing can keep us active , whatever we do , we will feel the loneliness. 

Sometimes , death is all about ending the problem we are facing in life. Sometimes , its about resting in peace after fulfilling all the dreams. Sometimes it's about leaving everyone behind in order to fight with ourselves.  

Sometimes we all think why our life is going so tough? What bad deeds we did that these all are happening. Sometimes we almost decide to end everything. Then the death teaches us that we can't compare the life someone else is living. Sometimes, we can't see the pain behind someone's smile. It teaches us that life is not easy for everyone. We need to struggle in each and every stage. 

It's a painful truth . Leaving everyone behind is painful. The pain of the lost one can never be fulfilled. Everyone occupies a different place in our heart and sometimes that place remains empty till the end. 

What death taught us ?? That life is beautiful. We can do lots of things when we are alive. That no matter how much we cry , once we lost them then they are never going to be back . No matter how much we regret , for not sharing the feelings we wanted to , they won't be back. 

Death taught us that no matter what happens always stay strong. Sometimes we die before the real death . Sometimes the pain of living is greater than the death. 

Sometimes even our closest one leave us when we need their support. They do comeback but when we are dead. 

The death taught us that sometimes even the strongest one need shoulder to cry. Sometimes we all need someone to share our feelings.

No one is permanent in this world. This is what death has taught me.

Whether we accept it or not but death teaches us alot.Sometimes more than life.